Little switches that make a difference.

Having three little ones under three years old is hard work; add in a disability to that and its even more difficult. Trying to switch things up in your marriage or relationship can sometimes be a major challenge balancing kids,work,bills, cleaning. Every week I try to let my husband know that I love him by doing things differently, he is the stay at home dad and he deals with the kids all day long. One day I will call him and say " Don't cook anything I will bring home dinner." We rarely get a night out to ourselves due to Noel and her feeding issues, but when we can grab and hour or two its nice to do something we both love and sometimes I just let my husband pick because he is the one that's cooped up all day long.

Old fashioned notes are nice too, I love to see a note left for me and he puts them in the places he knows I will go first. Our society is so electronic now so texts and emails seems like the easiest and we do text and email while I'm at work and its nice to see just say " I'm thinking about you "

Above all you have to make time for your spouse, If you don't relationships start to drift apart. Little switches, small changes make a huge difference in the way you see your mate.

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